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Dear Jamie,
It seems like everyone my age is exploring their sexual side. Their having (or trying to have) sex with anything and everything! This never interested me because I’ve always wanted to stick to one girl, but it seems like i should be expanding my horizons. What do you think?
Signed,
Monogamy
Dear Monogamy,
First, I advise you to sit back, take a deep breath, and read your question aloud. Second, I want you to make sure that you realize how lame you sound. Do you realize how lame you sound? Good.
What you’re feeling is peer pressure. Do you know who falls for peer pressure? High school drop-outs and twelve-year-old fans of the Jonas Brothers.
In all seriousness, nobody is forcing you to constantly get your dick wet by multiple women. Well, nobody except for the shit you might watch on television or the constant glorifications of tasteless douchebags.
Think about it this way. Seeing as how you’re reading this, I’ll assume that you’re a geek. A nerd. Perhaps at one point in your life, you or others may have considered you(rself) a complete loser. Do you know why that is? It’s because you were always a bit different. You didn’t necessarily follow the crowd and you weren’t always fascinated with what was considered “popular.” Why would you fall for it now?
Do what you feel is right. Do you want to “expand your horizons” and meet more women? Then build up your confidence. Do you want to “stick to one girl”? Then don’t let your peers influence you to do otherwise.
Be your own person – don’t let anyone but yourself dictate your life.
Good luck, Geek.
Jamie
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@Monogamy – Explore the internet’s sexual side. It’s always free and no one judges you.
Until the FBI shows up at your door.
Do people really have a problem with the fact that they think they should have more than one sexual partner?
It all comes down on what the person thinks themselves…do you want more than one sexual partner Monogamy? If so, then seek out those who like to have a lite relationship (believe me, within the first couple of minutes of conversation you’ll know), if not…well that’s easy to seek out as well.
Jamie’s right, build up your confidence, find some sort of get together that you are interested in whether it be LAN parties, art exhibitions, whatever it is, have fun and maybe–just maybe—you might find that Mr or Mrs Monogamy.
Maybe he should try talking to a woman first. That would definitely expand his horizons.
Or perhaps the answer is 42? Have you ever thought about that, Jamie? 42 women.